Untoxicify Your Relationship: The Card Deck
A card deck that helps you spot red, yellow, and green flags in real time, so you stop romanticizing red flags, slow down on the yellow ones, and actually recognize healthy love when it shows up.
Because clarity changes how you choose.
The Drop
The Card Deck is released in intentional monthly drop weekends.
The March Drop opens March 20th. Only 30 orders will be accepted this round.
Orders close Sunday at 11:59 PM, or sooner if all 30 spots are claimed. Once the drop closes, the deck will not be available again until April.
Join the waitlist below to receive the private purchase link on March 19th, one day before the public release.
Let’s Be Real For A Second
Most of us don’t ignore red flags because we don’t see them. We ignore them because we explain them away.
We tell ourselves:
“They didn’t mean it like that.”
“I just need to be more patient.”
“Nobody’s perfect.”
“At least they’re trying.”
So we minimize what feels off, rush past the yellow flags, and then wonder why we end up drained, confused, or questioning ourselves.
This deck exists to interrupt that pattern, without shaming you and without pretending love is supposed to be easy all the time.
“It was the reflection I didn’t know I needed.”
— Single Woman
What’s Inside the Deck
This deck doesn’t whisper. It calls things what they are.
Inside are 60 cards designed to help you spot patterns, check your boundaries, and stop lying to yourself “for the sake of love.”
Here’s what you’ll be working with:
Red Flags - The Wake Up Call
These cards don’t sugarcoat.
They name the behaviors that are controlling, manipulative, inconsistent, and disrespectful. The ones that leave you drained, confused, and questioning yourself.
If you’ve ever said:
“That’s just how they are.”
“Maybe I’m being dramatic.”
“It’s not that deep…”
These cards are here to lovingly say: It is.
Red flags aren’t about fear; they’re about protecting your peace.
Yellow Flags - Wait a Minute Now
Yellow flags are the ones we love to ignore.
They aren’t always deal-breakers, but they are decision points.
These cards help you slow down when:
Emotions are moving faster than wisdom
Potential is louder than consistency
You’re explaining instead of observing
Yellow flags invite real conversations, clearer boundaries, and honesty with them and yourself.
Green Flags - Healthy Looks Good on You
These cards remind you what healthy actually looks like.
Not “perfect" or “but they’re trying.” But straight up healthy.
It's consistency, accountability, emotional safety, follow-through, and respect. Periodt.
Green flags help you stop being surprised by basic decency and start expecting relationships that feel steady, safe, and mutual.
Faith Anchor Cards - Grounded, Not Rushed
These cards help you check alignment, patience, and values, especially when chemistry is loud, and discernment needs to speak up.
They remind you:
You can’t microwave a God-written love story
Waiting isn’t punishment
Wisdom protects what prayer is building
“The card deck does a great job of calling out real relationship patterns while mixing faith, honesty, and reflection in a way that feels personal and practical.”
— Single Woman + Mental Health Therapist
Intro + How-To Cards - No Rules, Just Intention
These cards show you how to use the deck in real life:
Solo reflection
Journaling
Prayer
Group conversations
Dating check-ins
There’s no “right” way to use this deck, just an honest one.
They Said It, Not Me
Early Reactions from women who tested the deck
“Girllll…those red and yellow flags were SO eye-opening. Whew”
— Single Woman
“The deck opened my eyes and gave me the language that was missing.”
— Single Woman
“I’m married now, but this deck would have been so helpful when I was dating. It could have prevented a lot of sadness early on.”
— Married Woman
The Numbers Don’t Lie
Here’s what came through during beta testing:
100%
found the red, yellow, and green framework helpful for reflection or conversation
80%
said the red flags cards were the most eye-opening
80%
said they would purchase the card deck
100%
said they would recommend the deck to someone else
Ready to Stop Guessing and Start Choosing Differently?
If you’re tired of explaining away red flags, rushing past yellow ones, or second-guessing what healthy love actually looks like, this deck was made for you.
Pull a card, take inventory, and choose better.
Orders ship within 2 weeks.