Been asking yourself, “Is this a red flag or am I tripping?”
You’re not tripping. You just don’t have the language yet.
The Untoxicify Your Relationship card deck gives you exactly that and the clarity to finally act on it.
Clarity changes everything. Even your love life.
APRIL DROP WEEKEND
One weekend. The deck. The event.
The whole vibe.
April 17–19 is more than a drop — it's a whole experience. Get on the VIP list for early access to the deck, and join us in St. Louis for a night built entirely around the decision to choose better.
APRIL DROP
Untoxicify Your Relationship Card Deck
Only 40 decks available. Get on the VIP list and buy before the public because once they're gone, they're gone.
Orders Open - April 17th
Orders Close - April 19th, 11:59 PM
Price - $40 · shipping included
Available - Only 40 decks
LIVE EVENT
A Celebration of HER
The moment you decided to stop settling and choose better was worth celebrating. One night. Massage. Food. Bubbly. And 20 women who get it.
Date - April 18th
Time - 7 PM - 9:30 PM
Location - Smart Wellness Collective, STL
Spots - Only 20 women
Gen Admission: $20
Entry + Massage Session: $30 (save $5!)
Let’s Be Real For A Second
Most of us don’t ignore red flags because we don’t see them. We ignore them because we explain them away.
We tell ourselves:
“They didn’t mean it like that.”
“I just need to be more patient.”
“Nobody’s perfect.”
“At least they’re trying.”
So we minimize what feels off, rush past the yellow flags, and then wonder why we end up drained, confused, or questioning ourselves.
This deck exists to interrupt that pattern, without shaming you and without pretending love is supposed to be easy all the time.
“It was the reflection I didn’t know I needed.”
— Single Woman
What’s Inside the Deck
This deck doesn’t whisper. It calls things what they are.
Inside are 57 cards designed to help you spot patterns, check your boundaries, and stop lying to yourself “for the sake of love.”
Because clarity changes the way we choose.
Here’s what you’ll be working with:
Red Flags - The Wake Up Call
Identify the red flags you’ve been explaining away.
You already know something feels off. You’ve just been talking yourself out of it.
You say, “That’s just how they are.” “Maybe I’m being dramatic.” “It’s not that deep.”
These cards are here to lovingly say: it is that deep.
These cards name the toxic behaviors you need to stop tolerating, at all cost.
Yellow Flags - Wait a Minute Now
Proceed with caution and reassess the relationship.
You’re not sure if it’s a dealbreaker. But something’s telling you to slow down.
These cards help you pause, reassess, and have the conversations you’ve been avoiding.
Yellow flags invite real conversations, clearer boundaries, and honesty with them and yourself.
Green Flags - Healthy Looks Good on You
See the green flags, so you stop being surprised by basic decency.
These cards show you what healthy actually looks like.
Because healthy love isn't just about finding the right person. It starts with recognizing what right actually feels like.
You deserve a love that's steady, safe, and mutual. And it starts here.
“The card deck does a great job of calling out real relationship patterns while mixing faith, honesty, and reflection in a way that feels personal and practical.”
— Single Woman + Mental Health Therapist
Ways to Use the Deck
No Rules. Just Intention and finally some clarity.
You’ve been carrying confusion that was never yours to carry. Pull a card. Name it. Choose better. Here’s how people are using the deck:
Date Night Conversations
Pull a card to spark deeper conversations on your next date. No awkward small talk. Just real ones.
Couples Check-Ins
Reflect on patterns in your relationship and talk through them together. Comfortable confusion ends here.
Personal Reflection and Journaling
Pull a card and sit with it. Write through the prompt. Explore what comes up because sometimes the most important conversation is with yourself. The clarity will surprise you
Group Conversations
Perfect for workshops, small groups, or real conversations with your girls. This work is better together.
Therapy or Coaching Sessions
Therapists and coaches can use the cards to guide conversations and help clients explore relationship patterns with language that actually lands
There’s no “right” way to use the deck. Just an honest one.
They Said It, Not Me
Early Reactions from women who tested the deck
“Girllll…those red and yellow flags were SO eye-opening. Whew”
— Single Woman
“The deck opened my eyes and gave me the language that was missing.”
— Single Woman
“I’m married now, but this deck would have been so helpful when I was dating. It could have prevented a lot of sadness early on.”
— Married Woman
The Numbers Don’t Lie
Here’s what came through during beta testing:
100%
found the red, yellow, and green framework helpful for reflection or conversation
80%
said the red flags cards were the most eye-opening
80%
said they would purchase the card deck
100%
said they would recommend the deck to someone else
The Pattern Stops Here.
You’ve been asking yourself if you’re overthinking. You haven’t been. You just needed the language to name what you’ve been feeling and the clarity to finally act on it.
If you're tired of explaining away red flags, rushing past yellow ones, or not event know what healthy love looks like, this deck was made for you.
Pull a card. Name it. Choose better.
Allow 2 weeks for shipping. Cards are printed in batches locally in St. Louis, MO.